Sick of seeing your ex girlfriend with someone else? Tired of missing her and wondering where she is and what she’s doing? Wondering how you’re going to make your ex-girlfriend want you back?

Your situation may appear quite bleak at the moment, but you just need to know a few right buttons to push to get her to take notice of you again. Here are 5 tips to make your ex-girlfriend want you back again.

5 Tips to Make Your Ex-Girlfriend Want You Back

#1 Listen to what she is really saying

It’s often true women don’t really know what they want but then perhaps you just don’t know how to really listen to her. Take a moment and reflect on why the relationship ended. Did you feel her reasons for breaking up was honest? Did some things she say touch a core with you and do you think maybe these are the moments you need to sit up and pay attention? Understand where your girlfriend was coming from and start planning to do something about it.

#2 Being confident.

You might have heard about this rumour that women are attracted to ‘confident’ men. Teasing aside, how do you honestly feel you fit into this role? Before you start beating down on yourself and saying perhaps you don’t have what she wants, straight up and get real! You clearly DO have the confident qualities all women want because she wanted you!

If you feel you have slacked in some regards, stop and get back on top of things. Being confident is about accomplishing things but most important ‘knowing’ in your mind you CAN accomplish before you do! Work on your beliefs and your mindset first.

#3 Get active.

We all know we can get lazy, often more than we’d like to admit. The best time to stop this habit is right now because exercising and keeping busy is a great way to keep your own mind off your ex. Start some light jogging in the morning or afternoon. Join a gym or actually GO if you have joined a gym. Start exercising with a buddy or take up a new sport. Don’t sit around and watch TV as soon as you get home. Make plans with yourself and with others and stick to it.

#4 Make a firm decision to go into No Contact

If you’re going to start No Contact, you better be serious because the power of NC only works if you actually stick to your guns about it. This goes back to your mindset. To truly pull this off, you have to know exactly WHY you’re doing it and believe you’re doing it for ‘your own good’.

#5 Don’t allow her to use you as a doormat.

This goes back to showing her you’re a confident and independent person who doesn’t NEED her in your life. Don’t give her permission to take advantage of you because she knows you want her back. Be firm with her and make sure you set boundaries. After all you’re not her boyfriend anymore.

Your ex-girlfriend will want to come back if she sees that you’re better than anyone else in her life right now. You also want to show her that you don’t ‘need’ her in your life and you’ll be just fine without her. After all no one wants a clingy and desperate boyfriend.

Want to know why so many get it wrong? There are many pitfalls you need to watch out for as they are designed to lead us deliberately off course. Avoid these mistakes and you’ll be sure to be headed in the right direction.